I shouldn't feel this way but i guess this is what i am feeling right now, depression. When i had my eldest child which is my son, i never felt anything then such as this depression that i am dealing this time. I hate it but i don't know what to do either. I worry a lot of things and makes me think that i am worthless and useless. I feel so down that makes me think that i am also helpless. I need to get over this kind of stage and i need comfort from someone i really love, my husband. Too bad he is so far away from me and he couldn't give me the comfort that i need. I easily cry and feel sad for no reason. Is this really normal for a mother who just barely gave birth or what? I don't understand and it is really difficult for me to explain. I am hoping i can get over this depression i am dealing with right now.
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Hey darl take it easy, one step at atime, i know your a strong women so kaya na nimo..ana gyud darl but you need to be strong kay bag-o paraba ka nanganak, then kong unsay imong gibati ma feel sad sa imo baby..ipray lang ang tanan, i know GOd has a reason for everything. so Yaw pag gu-ol go-ol darl...always think possitve, so kaya na nimo darl. Ako sad ingon ana ko sa una, i almost give up after i give birht with my son, mga 5 days hilak ko ato kay kapoy kaau.but in returns nga nag dako sya sobra akong kalipay..so yaw lang hunahuna, normal rana, especially layo mo sa isag isa sa imo hubby..lahi ra gyud basta layo atong minahal sa kinabuhi. So take care always girl i know kaya na nimo...WE HERE your frineds to give you strenght. take care always diha...remember i always cared and i miss you so much....GOD BLESS...
i guess it's just normal. but try your best to overcome it. maybe you just needed your dear hubby by your side.
be strong! you've got a very lovely daughter!
Halo Dai, ngon ana baya ko sa una dai after ko nanganak dali rako makahiak din magul-anon. Dai, ayaw palabi kay kuyaw daw na cya kung naa kay post partum Depression kay makabuang kno na simbako lang. bitaw dai, e pray lang ang tanan ngon ana gyud na dai naa gyoy trials. Hope nga Ok emong baby karon. Take care always.
I hope you feel much better. Ako nga, kahit di nanganak, meron pa ring depression. :) God bless...
mamu I jsut heard the bad news gibalitaan ko ni lerlyn..sory to hear about it gyud oi....I feel so sad but I know that you are strong...just keep on praying mamu..
You need your husband by your side.
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Darl, im so sorry, your babygirl didn't make it..She's with the Lord now, an angel. I know He has His reason why.
About post depression, they said it's normal.. always call His name and pray na ma overcome nimo na lalo na now. If i'm in your situation, wala sad ko kabalo pa unsa bation but I know sakit kaau. Even me, after I got and read your message, wala jud ko kalihok, gihilantan tibuok nako lawas for few minutes.
Our deepest sympathy , thoughts and prayers are with you. muah!
That is so normal and you felt it harder because you are far from your husband. It'll fade away soon...just take it easy and go out as much as you can..keep your mind busy with activities that involved with your kids.
ohhh...so sorry about this Darls! Dugay nko walay balita sa imoha ah...buti nalang napadalaw me here at least may konting news from u...I bet it's just ur hormones, cheer up girl! I got you an award to bring perhaps a smile in your face? Grab it here!
Hi sis,
just be strong...
i felt that way too when i had my lil girl.. but just relax and pray always :]
take care
have someone to talk to aside from your hubby. If you have time, go out and refresh your mind. Most of all pray.
Have a great day Darlene
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hi darls! how r u feeling now? hope to hear from u soon...missed u!
Sometimes you need to have time to look inside yourself and find out why do you feel like that and what causes it. after that then you need to talk it over with the person you trust and start taking one step at a time to overcome those feelings and also it helps if you think all the good things that happen to your life and to think positive and most importantly talk to someone, open up and just talk about it.. hope that you will feel better....
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That's pretty normal.. napagdaan ko din po yan noon after I gave birth sa bunso kong lalaki.. Miss mo lng hubby mo.. Be strong, maovercome mo din yan tulad ko.. ;) Kaya mo yan mommy Darlene..
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my dear, depression isn't that simple, you have to do something para malingaw ka day.. di biya sayon anang magsigeg dala ay... i hope nga ma-okay naka soon....
God bless...
Darlene,I wonder if that happens after a first girl is born. After my daughter was born, I was depress for like a whole week.
All someone has to do is look at me or say one word, and my eyes would water like my favorite pet just died. I have absolutely no control over my emotions. It's like riding in a runaway train and just as fun (not.)
IT went away after a week, but if yours still trouble you, there are other options. Of course, being near your husband would be the best cure of all. I hope you'll all be together soon.
i felt that, too sis a week after i got out of the hospital when i delivered my 3rd baby. i simply focused on something, like playing games in the computer that time. but be careful of relapse, too sis. don't overdo things. ur right u need to have somebody with u to ease whatever ur feeling right now.
Hi how are you now?I'm praying for you.
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